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| things I've learned... |
I've been coming out of a weird period of time-the last few days have been really hard for me due to a few differing aspects of my life right about now-and I want to say thank you to the friends who stayed on friday night-you guys really are some of the best people I've ever known. :) As my finals week begins tomorrow and my last few days of my freshman year come closer, I want to write some things that I've learned about myself and about things that I've learned in general.
I saw over the last year that people get closer and others get further and that's okay. I don't think it's ever possible to really lose a friend-even if you have a falling out, there is always that friendship that you once had, and if both people are willing, you can always take steps to get back to it. Friends are always friends, no matter what's going on or how busy anyone is-sometimes they just can't always be there even if they want to. I realized especially this year that even when people leave, they still need their friends no matter how independent they think they are. This is exactly what happened to me and this year was definitely the most difficult between family, money, support, friends, etc. The first year of college didn't happen to be the most difficult scholastically, surprisingly. I realized a lot about myself and about human nature, though. There will always be people that you don't get along with. You can really accomplish anything if you are willing to take initiative and suffer the consequences. Experience is what you make of it. There will always be friends around, new or old even if it doesn't seem that way. Work might be necessary, but it doesn't have to be horrible. Life goes by quickly (sometimes a little too quickly). Procrastinating doesn't help, but eventually you get things done. Keep up on readings. Stay personable. Do more laundry. Watch what you eat to avoid the Freshman 15. Supporting people is sometimes the most imprtant thing that you can do sometimes (even if it means driving up to Irvine for one random night). Nothing is nearly what it seems, and even at nearly 19 I'm still learning about family skeletons and issues-deal with them how you see fit, but sometimes it's best not to intervene. Money is not as important as the world seems to think it is. You cannot buy family or relationships, or even happiness-if there is one thing to remember, it is that experience should never be hindered by it if it can be helped. Learn from the mistakes and experiences of others, especially from those of your parents; it helps you to make your own mistakes, which need to made-there is no question about that. Travel is exciting, but remember finances aside from vacations. Everything in moderation. Love, friendship, family, and your life are all that you have; treat them well and do the best you can. Give your all. Finally, surround yourself with good people. Isolating yourself because you don't like anything in your life, your school, your roomate, your circumstances, etc. will NOT help you to enjoy life. Stay friendly, laugh a lot, and spend time with people who make you happy.
On a less serious note, DO NOT pack all of your belongings for your dorm if you know that you will be bringing it back at the end of the year. Chances are you will not need every pair of shoes you own, your top 20 favorite books, or even all your movies. All scarfs, jeans, purses, jewlery, CDs, action figures, etc. probably won't be necessary. Once again, everything in moderation.
I'm really looking forward to this summer, especially because I can't wait to be near so many wonderful people-working at a summer camp w/ steve, andrew hernandez, and brad munns-these are some of the most wholesome and intelligent friends that I have and I can't wait to spend so much time with them doing something so fun! I'm also really excited b/c I've grown really close with some people that I didn't think I would ever be so close with-some of the people that will be around this summer as so wonderful-and some random special guests will be here too (Jer and, surprisingly, Rob among them). Comic-Con, Lost, Plan 9 From Outerspace, and Firefly marathons will bring even more people to my tiny living room and that's just the way that I like to remember summers when they're over.
On a final note, the chocolate on the cushions on friday wasn't a big deal and I'm sorry if I suddenly became overwhelmed by it-I also know that sometimes people feel discluded b/c word doesn't get around to them-but anyone reading this who would like to come is invited-I'm sure there will be another Lost marathon or something on saturday or sunday (maybe even friday if I can get all of my crap back by then) ;) If you can make it, I'd sure love to have you. Have an awesome summer, everyone, and I'll see you this weekend :) |
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i'm blowing kisses to my computer screen , meant for you, Steph-o.
xo- aa
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Steph is teh pwn
COMIC-CON!!!
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hot makado (sp?) on sunday!!
i'm excited.
rides?
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*Shoots Steph with the update gun*
BANG!!!
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:(
you missed hot mikado with me
we'll make up for that soon.
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i'm blowing kisses to my computer screen , meant for you, Steph-o.
xo- aa